Toddler's Creed
If I want it, it's mine. If I give it to you and change my mind later, it's mine. If I can take it away from you, it's mine. If I had it a little while ago, it's mine. If we are building something together, all of the pieces are mine. If it looks like mine, it's mine. If it's mine it will never belong to anyone else, no matter what.
I have said to parents that ask if I give a family discount,
"Which child would you like me to give the discounted care to?
Let your kids play in the mud. The mud will wash off, but the memories will last a lifetime." R.D. Ramsey
"There are only two things a child will share willingly - communicable diseases and his mother's age." Dr. Benjamin Spock
"Childhood is that wonderful period when all you need to do to lose weight is to take a bath." Author unknown
"Recognizing the good in children is one of the greatest gifts we can give them." Author unknown
Children are the purpose of life. We were once children and someone cared for us. Now it is our time to care." By a Cree Elder
To be a child is to know the joy of living. To love a child is to know the beauty of life." Author unknown
...The baby you care for arrives an hour and a half early, another client informs you that their check to you bounced; halfway through the morning Julie throws up and you try to contact her parents. You discover you have no hot water when you go to clean up Julie for the second time, and lunch burns while you're checking the hot water heater. Still you try to reach Julie's parents. The rest of the kids are no longer waiting patiently for the lunch that burned but are now wrecking the playroom you just picked up. You finally have lunch completed, kids down for nap and manage to catch up while the baby naps for forty-five minutes. As the baby wakes up, your school-agers arrive with a new swear word at snack, which the toddlers are now repeating. You SMILE as you give them crackers and juice for snack, and hope that the day will soon be over...when a parent calls to inform you that they will be late picking up their child tonight. You try to reach Julie's parents one more time. Every child runs to another room when their parents come in and your husband comes in happily asking, "What's for dinner?"...Evan's older brother arrives with his mom and begins to play with everything you just put away and refuses to go home when mom is ready. Julie manages a miraculous recovery thirty minutes before her parents arrive and you feel frustrated and confused. You finally manage dinner and realize you have to go to the grocery store before care tomorrow. By the time shopping is finished and groceries are put away you crawl into bed at 11pm and dream of a better tomorrow!
YOUR CHILD PROBABLY......
worked with a friend
solved a problem
created a masterpiece
negotiated a difference
learned a new skill
had a great time
developed new language skills
YOUR CHILD PROBABLY DIDN'T.......
feel lonely
become bored
do repetitive tasks that are too babyish
do worksheets that are too easy
do sit down work that is discouraging
YOU PROBABLY......
paid good money for those clothes
Will have trouble getting the red paint out
are concerned the caregiver isn't paying enough attention to your child
YOUR CAREGIVER PROBABLY......
was aware of your child's special needs and interests
spent time planning a challenging activity for the children
encouraged the children to try new things
was worried you might be concerned
Young children really learn when they are actively involved in play.....not when someone is talking to them. There is a difference between "messy" and "lack of care." Your caregiver made sure your child was fed, warm, offered new skills and planned messy fun things to do because that's how young children learn!
Send your child in clothes that can get dirty! Keep extra old clothes at the site for times when the child gets really messy. But remember, young children need time to be kids.~ author unknown ~
Flowers Are Red
by Harry Chapin
The little boy went first day of school
He got some crayons and started to draw
He put colors all over the paper
For colors was what he saw
And the teacher said...what you doin' young man
I'm paintin' flowers he said
She said...its not the time for art young man
And anyway flowers are green and red
There's a time for everything young man
And a way it should be done
You've got to show concern for everyone else
For you're not the only one
And she said...Flowers are red young man
Green leaves are green
There's no need to see flowers any other way
Than the way they always have been seen
But the little boy said
There are so many colors in the rainbow
so many colors in the mornin' sun
So many colors in a flower and I see every one
Well the teacher said...you're sassy
There's ways that things should be
And you'll paint flowers the way they are
So repeat after me
And she said...
Flowers are red young man
Green leaves are green
There's no need to see flowers any other way
Than the way they always have been seen.
But the little boy said...
There are so many colors in the rainbow
so many colors in the mornin' sun
So many colors in a flower and I see every one
The teacher put him in a corner
she said...It's for your own good
And you won't come out 'til you get it right
And all responding like you should
Well finally he got lonely
Frightened thoughts filled his head
And he went up to the teacher
And this is what he said...And he said
Flowers are red, green leaves are green
There's no need to see flowers any other way
Than the way they always have been seen.
Time went by like it always does
And they moved to another town
And the little boy went to another school
And this is what he found
The teacher there was smilin'
She said...Painting should be fun
And there are so many colors in a flower
So let's use every one
But that little boy painted flowers
In neat rows of green and red
And when the teacher asked him why
this is what he said...And he said
Flowers are red, green leaves are green
There's no need to see flowers any other way
Than the way they always have been seen.
ODE TO DAYCARE
Little children come to me for hugs and books and such
I care for all their simple needs and also fix them lunch
I pickup toys, I mop their spills and often dry their tears
I change their diapers, settle fights and kiss away their tears.
I tie thier shoes, I button coats I push them on the swing
I really love these kids you see but there is just one more thing
Call me Miss or Aunt or Steph and those names just might fit
But please don't call me SITTER because I never get to sit!
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author unknown....
~ Anonymous ~
Best Child Care Provider: An Easy Recipe For a Tough Job/H3>
Preheat house to 70° in winter and oven to 375°F. Combine love, networking and encouragement in bowl #1 and set aside. Combine understanding,compassion, enviroment and creativity and beat till creamy in bowl #2. Add warm touch. Then combine bowl #1 and bowl #2, mix well, and then throw in kid fun and bake for 8-10 min. Makes 6+3 feel loved and makes a difference in their lives (and also feeds them 100 two-inch cookies). Serve with proper nourishment and enjoy.
~ Heidi Demers ~
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~ by Larry Howland ~
We wipe tears from the eyes of the injured.
We rock babies brand new in our arms.
We encourage the shy and unsure child.
We make sure they are safe from all harm.
We foster the bonds of friendships,
letting no child go away mad.
We respect and we honor their emotions.
We give hugs to each child when they're sad.
We have more impact than does a professor,
a child's mind is molded by four,
so whatever we lay on the table
is whatever that child will explore.
Give each child the tools for adventure,
let them be artists and writers and more;
let them fly in the wind and dance on the stars
and build castles of sand on the shore.
It is true that we don't make much money
and we don't get a whole lot of praise,
but when one small child says, "I Love You,"
we're reminded of how this job pays.
~ author unknown ~
You're asking me the value
Of blocks and sand and clay.
Your children are solving problems,
They will use that skill every day.
You're saying that you don't want your son
To play in that sissy way.
He's learning to cuddle a doll,
He may be a father someday.
You're questioning the interest centers,
They just look like useless play.
Your children are making choices,
They'll be on their own someday.
You're worried your children aren't learning
And later they'll have to pay.
They're learning a pattern for learning,
For they'll be learners always.
~ NAEYC ~